Which One of Your Children Do You Love More?

Which One of Your Children Do You Love More?

As I sat patiently waiting for the meeting to begin, a friend who knows both my children asked, “Which one is your favorite? I mean, I know I’m my mom’s favorite, but every parent has a favorite, right?” His question didn’t surprise me because my children have asked it too. It usually comes after a […]

How Anger is My Default Emotion in This Beautiful Life?

How Anger is My Default Emotion in This Beautiful Life?

Hi Friends, I’m having a tough time with this and I hope you can help me. As I do the following: Listen to incessant talking. Drive the children from one very important practice to another. Rush to fix dinner. Rush to clean up dinner. Complete homework. Aid in studying for tests. Supervise screen time, shower […]

It is a Beautiful and Simple Life

It is a Beautiful and Simple Life

Dear Friends, of all the things I hoped and wished for in my life, simple was not on my list. As a young girl I wanted a loving life where I felt seen and heard. As a teenager I wanted a fun-filled life filled with excitement and adventure. As a twenty something I wanted an […]

Unbiased: The Kindest and Truest Want For My Children

Unbiased: The Kindest and Truest Want For My Children

Maybe the best I can hope for is for my children to experience the happiness I longed for as a child. Maybe my kindest and truest want will be for them to walk through this life without the biases I was brought up with, the layers of conditioned learning of what was right and what […]

How To Deal With The Boy Who Always Says No

How To Deal With The Boy Who Always Says No

Hi Friends! I have two children. Two amazing, intelligent, loving, caring, and kind children. And yet, in some areas they couldn’t be anymore different. When a new challenge is presented to the two of them, my daughter is strong-willed and confident while my son is tentative and afraid of failure. And every time this scenario […]

Revel in the Bounty of Your Life

Revel in the Bounty of Your Life

Dear Friends, Don’t let anyone – including that little voice in your head – tell you that your life should be any different than it is. Of course your life isn’t perfect, and there are many things you want that you don’t have, but that is true for everyone. The way out of feeling bad […]

How To Honor A Painful Loss By Living with Intention

How To Honor A Painful Loss By Living with Intention

Hi Friends! I have been giving a lot of thought to loss. In fact, I have been living within the painful cycle of grief since my father passed away on January 30, 2021. I’ve been wondering, how can I remember him without being sad all the time? And, believe me, I am okay with being […]